Frequently Asked Questions
This page is a work in progress.
I believe the safest approach to working during this pandemic is through limiting close contacts and keeping my bubble small. Therefore, I will be only be seeing a few clients per week for the foreseeable future.
On safe sex...
I only practice safe sexual services and this includes protected oral. I do not take on clients who seek unsafe services. If you request uncovered services during the booking, I will suspend our booking immediately without refund. I have a duty of care to all my clients (and their potential partners) to practice safely with everyone, including in my personal life.
On drugs and smoking...
Please let me know if you have engaged in any illicit substances prior to our booking; I prefer to be informed for my own safety as drugs can induce unusual behaviours. I do not smoke, and appreciate if you refrain prior to seeing me, otherwise please use the mouthwash I provide.
I'm new to this and don't know how it works. How do I make a good impression?
The hardest part is making a decision and I'm grateful to be considered as someone you're looking to spend time with. There's no need to rush into it, take your time to research, browse through social media, and contact when you're ready. I'm able to offer advice where possible, and I'm happy to recommend my colleagues. Making the booking is an easy process as my expectations are outlined on my Guidelines page. You'll always communicate solely with me, and I make every effort to be patient and kind.
How do you ensure my discretion and privacy?
My personal apartment is located in a residential building in the centre of the CBD near the Sky Tower, and nobody would suspect where you plan to visit. The intercom is easy to use, and my instructions are clear and simple. I ask you not to loiter anywhere, just walk straight in as though you live here. If you're lost or confused, call me. When you arrive on my floor, I answer my door immediately and always fully dressed. I deliberately keep low volume, limited to 1-2 clients per day. You will never see anyone else during your time with me, and if my neighbours are in the corridor, we'll wait until they're gone. For privacy, your details are kept securely with me and I will not contact you unsolicited. I am comfortable signing NDAs and using code words when communicating with you.
Do you accept bank transfers?
I am able to take full payment prior to our session for known clients. Please allow at least 24 hours, on business days only. I have a discreet business account for these transactions. I do not accept full bank transfers for same-day bookings or new clients, as I am not prepared to take on the risk of someone circumventing payment.
Could you send me a face picture?
No. I have made a very conscious decision to not have my face in any of my online presence because of the stigma attached to this industry on a global scale, especially with facial recognition technology. I understand this can be an important part of deciding to book someone, however, it is too risky for me.
How do you greet clients?
I always greet clients wearing either a blouse and jeans or a form-fitting dress, and always with a big smile and a warm hug. Starting the session fully dressed allows a chance for us to build rapport and become comfortable with each other before delving into intimacy. Clients are always welcome to make requests - if you'd rather I greeted you in lingerie and a robe, please ask!
What if I'm early or late?
I appreciate punctuality; please be on time for our date. If you arrive early, I may still be getting ready for you and cannot buzz you in. If you are running late, please keep me informed. I always allow plenty of time between clients to accommodate for unexpected traffic jams - I know what it's like to drive in Auckland! If you are over 30 minutes late, I may have to reduce our session length, but this extremely unlikely.
Do clients need to bring anything to session?
You only need to bring yourself and the payment for my time. I provide everything including condoms in multiple sizes, lubricants, fluffy towels and shower supplies, including deodorant. I can provide latex free condoms if you have an allergy - please let me know if this applies to you so I can make sure I have enough. You are welcome to bring treats!
How many clients do you see per day?
I'm including this question because I aim to be transparent. Typically I'll see one or two clients per day I choose to work. For those who book Dinner and Dessert Dates or longer, they are my only commitment. I am genuinely a low volume provider because I strive to keep my premises discreet and ensure I give 100% of myself to every date.
Do you see clients of X race?
I am comfortable providing my services to clients from every ethnicity. My choices to see clients are based on their ability to respect my profession and boundaries. I will refuse to see potential clients for the following reasons: failing to make a polite inquiry with the information I've requested, asking for natural services, or are overtly rude and demanding. I do not discriminate based on race / ethnicity.
Do you see clients who are disabled?
Yes. I have experience providing my services to clients who have a range of physical, sensory, or intellectual disabilities, and I am comfortable working flexibility around your specific needs and with carers to ensure the best intimate experience possible for you.
On being self-conscious...
Being naked and intimate with someone new is often a vulnerable and emotional experience. I understand how being self-conscious can inhibit your ability to enjoy pleasure, so I want you to know I place no judgement on your size or shape or your ability to perform - you are perfectly valid just how you are.
What if I accidentally do something wrong?
It's okay, I will gently let you know if something is inappropriate - either I'm personally uncomfortable or if it may breach safe sex practices. I encourage you to ask if you're ever unsure. Consent is super important; it should be freely given, enthusiastic, and ongoing. This short video is an excellent overview on consent. Link
Do you offer kink/fetish services to clients?
I am open to exploring light activities with known and trusted clients, though I'm not professionally trained.
How long have you been a sex worker?
I have been an independent full service sex worker for nearly three years, alongside my University studies.
Why do you write so much? I just want to f*ck.
I believe if you're going to spend a significant amount of money, you should have ample information to make a clear, informed decision. I want to provide transparency and confidence to my clients who often have a lot of questions about how this industry works and what to expect from their time with me.
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